First Haircut At Age 3
Did you know that is Jewish tradition it is customary to allow a boy’s hair to grow untouched until he’s three years old?
It is believed that up until the age of three, a child is the recipient of loving care, yet has nothing yet to give back to the world.
However, at the age of three, a child begins to learn how to recite blessings, as well as other things. So it is believed at this age the male child can begin to bless the world through his Torah study and 𝘮𝘪𝘵𝘻𝘷𝘰𝘵 (good deeds).
Many families will hold a "first haircut" ceremony, called an upsherin. It is a low-key event, often held at home with only light refreshments. Sometimes the event is even held at the graveside of a tzaddik (righteous individual).
At the ceremony, it is customary for a rabbi or kohen (Jewish priest) to cut the first snippet. Then other attendees will take turns cutting snippet's from the child's hair.
Many Jewish families choose to leave peyot (side locks) on the little boy, as this is considered to a 𝘮𝘪𝘵𝘻𝘷𝘢𝘩 (good deed).
Our purpose in sharing these tidbits is not to imply that these traditions have to be followed by believers in Jesus/Messianic Jews, but in order to help others better learn about and understand their Jewish neighbors and friends so that they can better build bridges and connections with them.